GUIDELINES FOR CHINESE STUDENT WORKERS From the CSW Consultation, Madison, 1987 1 How can we best relate to nationals while they are here? 1 1 How do we establish meaningful/fruitful contact with them? 1 1 1 The Chinese decidedly want relationships, for various reasons. Life in China depends heavily on relationships, which are generally lifelong. So they will usually be eager to respond to your overtures. Develop some lifetime friendships, for His sake and the Gospel's. 11 2 Through campus organizations and events that they take part in 11 3 Through arranged host families - Stay with host family 7-10 days when they first arrive, before going to dorm room. Such an opportunity greatly helps nationals adapt to America and feel they have American friends - Relationship may be limited by language, especially at first, but love and friendship show 114 Meet them at bus stops or airports at the beginning of school terms; welcome and assist them in adjusting to your locale 115 Have an English conversation group to serve and help them. Many are very new to English and struggle to understand it. Keep the class English centred, but find ways to give your testimony and the Gospel on occasion; and ways to make further contact with the more open ones 116 Occasional luncheons with secular sponsors, such as Rotary, Kiwanis, etc. Special luncheons sponsored by a Christian businessman, CBMC or a church. 117 Picnics - Select close or interested Chinese contacts; or invite people for a first-time event to get acquainted 114 Sightseeing trips: within your city and to nearby places. Overnight or weekend trips, with a few committed Christians going along, can be a powerful witness and relationship builder 115 Most internationals never get a chance to visit an American home. Invite two or three over for dinner or dessert, and slides, games, casual fellowship 11A. Encourage them to play with your children when they come to your house 11B. When you ask them details about their Life and family remember Their answers and write them own later, so that you won't need to ask the same questions next time 11C. Some publications will tell you know about China, and help you talk to your Chinese friends more intelligently a "Beijing Review" - like a small version- of "Life" magazine -$3.60/year (12 copies) b "China Reconstructs" - More detailed than "Beijing review" - Both of these are good to have around for Chinese students to look at, and to have them explain to you - to build relationships and understanding - $8.40/year (l2 copies) Notes: - Both are written for non-Chinese consumption. They emphasise the Party line, but are helpful - Check your university library for these periodicals - Order from: China International Book Trading Corporation PO Box 399 Beijing, China 12 How do we develop/build relationships with them? 121 Buddy/sponsor systems: Have a host Family or student feel responsible for one student or couple 122 Take them to grocery stores, post offices etc., both initially to show them how to find and use them, and every week or so as a service and relationship builder 123 English conversation: help them practice 124 Help them write their papers in English 125 special occasions, holidays (theirs or ours), etc.: invite them over to cook their favourite dishes or to watch you cook yours - especially wives and girls, but some men are also interested 126 Talk about their homeland Ask them to tell about their family, childhood, high-schooI experiences, or the famous things in their part of China. Keep in mind 1111 above 127 117,8,9 also good for cultivating relationships Notes: - do not identify with an organization but with Christ - They are suspicious of their own people. They can't be sure who are party members or checkers and reporters - They are impressed by position, so provide opportunities for them to met and get acquainted with professors, pastors, doctors, businessmen; business cards are important to exchange, or to give them. Whom you know is important in the Mainland. Guanxi ("Guanshee"), lifelong, obligational relationships, or their lack, can make or break you, protect or doom you - develop relationships on a personal basis not an organisational one - Nationals are encouraged by their government to attend churches in other countries because "churches are where people will help you" introduce them; but don't wave the flag publicly that you "have a Mainland Chinese here this morning" Don't make them exhibit A - For some time a Chinese national may feel more comfortable in groups of 3 or 4 people rather than being with just one American. So seek and pray for one-on-one relationships, but don't press for them prematurely 13 How do we present Jesus Christ to them (best ways to witness) when they have no concept of God, etc.? 131 Win their trust - demonstrate the love of Christ 132 Help them in their felt needs. Find out or guess what some of these are: loneliness, confusion, feeling uprooted, being afraid, homesickness, friendlessness, feeling overwhelmed by the bigness and affluence of America, feeling critical, etc. 133 Maintain your own daily fellowship with God The fruit of the Spirit attracts people 134 Principle of the Samaritan Woman - Share a little - give bits of truth - look for a response 135 Stories of people who have trusted Christ and been changed, your personal testimony, verbal illustrations of truth, and drawings or pictures - all these help truth to be understood and received 13 You can have a small evangelistic rally in your home once you have established a relationship with them by inviting "persons with a position" (ie professor, doctor, lawyer etc. - they are "respected") to give a testimony or to speak or even an informal dessert, where the professor, etc. shares with just one mainland Chinese or couple and other guests, can powerfully influence their thinking Notes: - Biggest questions: Is there a God? If so, does he have any involvement today with people on earth? Why can't we see Him? - #2: Is Jesus the Son of God? - #3: Are the Scriptures inspired by God? - Work out your own best answers to these questions Present them humbly - Resources: Threat of Getting old Science and Christianity The Symphony of the Universe - Chinese Christian Mission Box 617 Petaluma, CA 94953 - Give/send a Good book as a gift for birthdays, Christmas, or as a going-away present - Combine a book with a note, using a Scripture verse or portion 14 What should we understand about the world view and current attitudes of Chinese nationals? 141 They have an atheistic-Communist educational background and current perspective - They are brought up with Atheism/no-God teaching - Communism is taught in everything: liberal arts, science, drama, history, geography, etc. - Very Few young people believe in Communism or understand it - Most young people are open to new ideas, even about God - Mao Tse Tung theory is bankrupt, but this is admitted and believed only to varying degrees - more in recent months 14 Pragmatic concepts of the Chinese today - Make money, get an education - They are self-oriented and very afraid to open their hearts to anyone - Interested in intellectual pursuits - philosophy, psychology, politics, etc. - Education is viewed as incompatible with religion - "Anyone highly educated cannot believe in God" They need to meet educated Christians Christian professionals (in business, teaching, law, medicine, engineering etc are a testimony This breaks down the idea that Christianity is only for the uneducated Their minds are a vacuum, ready to believe something or someone who makes sense 1 5 How can we avoid undue offence and what subjects should we stay away from? 151 Generally politics (especially of China), unless they bring it up - Avoid American politics, unless the national is very interested "Forget your own people'' (Psalm 45:10), also your own customs, culture, political philosophy, etc. Don't always bring in the American position or the American way And don't defend our weak, illogical, or even sinful ways of doing things, politically and otherwise - When the subject of our politics is brought up, share briefly and broadly, but not the complicated details. Of course they will ask more during campaigns and election seasons. So explain some to them but be cautious about boring them with too much. And remember that our goal is not to attract them to democracy or to the American kind of freedom - Apparently Jesus and the apostles didn't talk much about politics 1 5 2 Cultural Pride - Avoid equating our being "better off" with being better. We may be more advanced technologically but not in family and social relationships, etc. Many Asian nations are far more developed in these. And all people are part of a flawed humanity, which shows up in every culture, though in different ways 16 How can we best lead a national to a decision for Christ and do initial Follow-up? Decision 1 6 1 Be sensitive to how he is responding in his heart - often hard for a Westerner to sense, so pray and ask questions 16 2 Check and affirm their understanding of the Gospel truths (and emphasise the reliability of the Word of God) 1 6 2 1 Focus on the fact that there is a supreme and loving God Who wants people to know him personally - as a friend, a Helper, a Forgiver of sin 1 6 2 2 Explain and illustrate Christ's death as a total payment for sin. 1 6 2 3 Do they understand that receiving Jesus Christ personally as Saviour and lord results in Forgiveness and new life l 6 3 "The Bridge'' ishelpful to check their understanding. Also "Four Spiritual Laws" and other illustrations and booklets. 164 Is the Holy Spirit enlightening and motivating the person? don't push, but probe to see if he/she is ready. If so, give the person the opportunity to pray and receive Christ 16 5 It is "not by might, nor by power, but My Spirit," and some Chinese are clear enough, ready, and do make a real decision, even after only brief contact. Pray for this, but be patient 166 Also be aware that nationals are often cautious about praying with a person to receive Christ - They may not say "no" but may be vague or not say anything if not interested - A prayer can mean "Yes, I'm interested," but not necessarily a clear acceptance 167 Be patient and continue to build warm relationships and explain about Christ Follow-Up 168 It is your responsibility to spiritually nourish a newborn believer, and to show loving care (I Thessalonians 2:7,8) 169 Have them memorise Scripture in their own language, rather than in English Have him/her write an assurance verse (see Appendix A) on a card - in own language: John 3:16; I John 5:11,12; I John 5:13; John 5:24, etc. In fact, the more a person does his/her Bible reading and study in Chinese, the less adjustment he/she will have when he/she returns to China, and the more readily he/she will be able to help others there 16A After a decision it is important to spend individual time with the person to strengthen his/her assurance, and then get him/her started in the basics for growth: reading the Word, prayer, etc. If the person seems uncomfortable about time alone with you, include someone close until the relationship has made enough progress to sustain a one-on-one approach 16B Acts 17:22 -34 is a key passage to point out the difference between the true and living God and idols. Jeremiah 10:6-12 is a rich OT passage 16C Should we push the national to be baptised? - The person may be hesitant or unclear about the significance of baptism. tell him/her about Lordship and about trust regarding God's control of the future, of governments, of marriage and family, of promotion or not (Psalm 75:6,7) Help him/her to yield these to the Lord. Also seek timely opportunities to bring in Christ's Lordship over possessions, relationships, self, time, and especially adequate daily time with the Lord. Then when it seems appropriate, show him Scriptures on baptism. Let him make his own decision. Some are bolder and ready more quickly than others 16D Is it better to be baptised in America or in China? - It's OK to be baptised in America But try to strengthen the new believer before he or she takes a bold public stand for Christ Keep in mind the truth of 171 below. Nevertheless baptism is part of obedience to Christ, and should be done fairly soon after real conversion 16E Keep them out of the limelight and avoid holding them up as trophies Teach and show them how to witness and encourage them But too much publicity has often ruined young Christians through developing pride; and for a Mainlander it could ruin his future or cut short his education (It has for a few who were brought home) 16F When we are communicating cross-culturally, we need to move slowly in exploring what Lordship can mean For them, not assuming the issues and applications are the same as in our culture Important: do not lose the relationship you have built with him/her, by coming down too hard on particulars Show and explain Scriptures on Lordship and let the Holy Spirit make the applications (Romans 12:1,2; Luke 9:23; Matthew 6:33, Hebrews 12:1,2, etc.) 16G develop a sensitivity in the national to respond to the authority of the Word of God, not to the authority of the discipler Be a Spirit-led encourager as well as a confronter, "I fed you with milk, not with meat" (I Corinthians 3:2) 16H Be clear but gentle: "A bruised reed He will not break, and a smouldering wick, He will not snuff out" (Isaiah 42:3) "Gently instruct leading them to a knowledge of the truth" (II Timothy 2:24) 16I How much and when should they (young believers from China)be introduced to other Chinese Christians (both from lhe Mainland and from other countries)? To Mainland Christians 171 It's better to go very slowly because of security factors (ie "best friends" have been known to report to authorities) In China everybody has someone who reports on them to the government. To put it a nicer way, everyone has someone looking out for their "well-being" This system operates the same way for the scholars from China studying in the United States. each university has a Foreign student or researcher who is responsible for the care of all the other grads and under grads. This scholar is accountable to the Area China Consulate-General's office, and reports regularly. 17 Do not introduce them to other Chinese believers right away Help them to walk with God first through one-on-one help When they feel it's appropriate, perhaps have them meet another Asian Christian, or a Chinese Christian, or a Mainland Chinese Christian To others 173 Most Mainland Chinese in America speak Mandarin, not Cantonese, so a Hong Kong Chinese may not be of help except in English. Taiwan Christians and many Singaporeans speak Mandarin. 174 Could a Taiwanese Christian help you with a national who cannot speak much English? Yes, but even here we need to be cautious. Let the Mainlander decide. Or arrange a natural, "coincidental" meeting in the Student Union, cafeteria, etc. Then check with the person you're helping as to whether another meeting would be helpful 18 Where should nationals attend church: Chinese or English speaking? 181 It's good to attend Chinese church, although he or she may be slow to feel free to meet with a Chinese congregation because of mistrust of other nationals and the implications for future Security. a A Chinese church helps him learn the vocabulary and concepts of Christianity in his heart language, and in the language he/she will need upon returning home b Let the national decide when it would be good to attend the first time Note: Attending a "Bible class" may be OK, but meeting other Mainland Chinese Christians is a touchy issue Whether for follow-up or evangelism, title it a "Practising English Meeting," "English Conversation Group," or "Learning the Foundations of Western Culture Discussion" This makes it easier for the national when he is interrogated - in America or back home It is also easier to feel safe and comfortable when meeting other Christians in such a setting (However they should in a natural way "discover" that another person is a Christian, probably during the discussion Be very hesitant to publicly or privately let everyone know where others in the group stand) 19 How much should we mention their conversion to other Chinese, Americans, etc.? 191 Not at all. Let them do it 192 It is a matter of keeping confidences for political reasons Pray that the Lord will give the Mainlander inner prompting and boldness in a proper situation (which only the prudent, cautious Mainlander can determine) 193 Never schedule him/her for a testimony to even a small all- Caucasian church/group Word gets around quickly. However, if the Mainlander is giving his testimony broadly and boldly, as some do, then perhaps it's OK to share with a small American group The Mainlander must decide without feeling the pressure of your seniority 1A What unique pitfalls in the Christian life should the national be aware of? What basic Scripture knowledge should they have about: 1A1 Relating to the government - Romans 13:7 Pray for government - I Timothy 2:1,2 Pray for leaders 1A2 Teaching on suffering - I Peter - godliness and suffering - Acts 16 - Paul and Silas in prison (an illustration of how God can use one's witness in prison) - Acts 28:16,30 - Paul preached the Word while under house arrest - suffering (physical, emotional) is not a sign of God's disfavour. He promises it (Philippians 1:2; John 16:3) - Hebrews 12 - There is chastening for sin, but 1 Peter teaches that you can do everything right and still suffer - There is a series of four recommended tapes on suffering (best to listen to them yourself first, then use them as the Lord leads): BSU Tape library 435 W. Boyd Norman, OK 73069 at US$3.50 per tape or $1.00 per tape for borrowing 1A3 Marrying a Non-Christian - Alert nationals ahead of time to the Scripture on this (II Corinthians 6:14-7:-l; cfEzra 9:2; I Corinthians 7:39_ - This is often a forbidden talk in Three-Self churches - A foreigner is more free to teach this 1A4 Maintaining their walk with the Lord - Acts 20:32; I Peter 3:18; Colossians 2:6,7; Philippians 4:6,7; Romans 12:1,2; John 14: 21,23 - The more habits he/she can establish in their present location, the easier it will be to transfer these habits when returning home - Get them well along in the "Three-Point Bible Study" (Appendix B) This is simple and is easy to reproduce (to hand copy or mimeograph/cyclostyle) Printed materials are frequently not available, and are obviously foreign - Use in America what is reproducible in their homeland, what can be used with others: "Monkey see, monkey do" If they become familiar with printed American materials, even if printed in Chinese, it will be much harder to transition to new, unfamiliar materials when they return home. And the printed ones will be hard to get into China and even harder to distribute to the people they help, as they more from one place to another And when the police search one's home, who wants to have a stack of pirated materials (therefore foreign) under their bed? 1A5 Temptations to immorality, bribery, corruption, dishonesty with money, lying, enforced abortion. Needed Christian character qualities: personal purity, love, generosity, good works, honesty, a controlled tongue, etc. - Present the Scripture on these things clearly, but at a pace the national can absorb. encourage the national to make his or her own decisions regarding theseconcerns after considering the Scriptures on them 1B What are the best types of study or other material to introduce to a national for maximum reproducibility upon his or her return? 1B1 The " Assurances" and the "6 Key Verses" (Appendix A) are ideal for memorizing. Unprinted name cards are easily available in China, and useful for writing memory verses 1B2 Three-Point Bible Study outline - six easily-copied pages in Chinese (English and Chinese in Appendix B) - This is sufficient for a Christian to study the Bible For 10 years, without further materials except a Bible - Short passages are easier than chapters for new Christians, or for less-educated ones (whom some of the scholars will probably be helping). Chinese appreciate clear points Their thinking pattern is structured - Do not print these and distribute them inside China Photocopies OK - Hand copy. Often it is good to have the interested party hand-copy his/her own. Can be done in 3-5 minutes - The Three-Point Bible Study passages do not have to be studied in the order listed, although there is merit in systematically following the topics - Topics No 8, 14, 18 cover different levels of witnessing - No 19 is on follow-up - Convenient because of: a Little expense in producing and mailing b Limited number of printed books and study helps available inside the Country c Not necessary to store printed study booklets inside the country (could be dangerous if searched) d Hand copying has no limits Could spread to millions of people 1B3 Best to divorce yourself from printed and organisational materials, which are taboo in Mainland 1B4 Photocopy machines for booklets, etc. are generally not available, and much of such material may arouse suspicions 1B5 Wheel, hand and Bridge illustrations are totally cross-culturaL, so teach then 1B6 don't teach only doctrine. Parables, stories, allegories, illustrations, examples, "war stories make truth come to life and help clarify how to apply it 20 How can we best help nationals as they leave to return home? 21 What are major struggles they will face? 211 Language adjustment - spiritual learning has largely been in English. Now they must communicate spiritually in Chinese 212 More-crowded and less-luxurious living situation. If family is not Christian, must adjust to living in a close, hostile environment 213 Loss of freedoms in living situation, and being back under close supervision of parents (and government) 214 Changing from Western academic life to the pressures, politics and responsibilities of a job or a Chinese university 215 New demands on one's time from: job, travel time, family, meetings 22 What materials can they take back? 221 China will welcome their returnees, so carrying one copy of a key Chinese Christian book/booklet through customs is OK; more OK if they are in English, including an English Bible and/or a NT 222 One Chinese NT or Bible 223 See last two Notes under 1 3 6 23 What should nationals know/read about Chinese Christianity? 231 House churches are usually hesitant to accept returnees. They are afraid of their commitment and connections. Most of the larger cities have house church's, but there are thousands in rural areas. They are generally non-denominational, use travelling pastors, are sometimes legalistic. Christians in the countryside have few Bibles, have occasional part-time lay preachers, and are sometimes weak in knowledge of the Word and its important truths 232 prepare them for the shock They will not have the warm bubbly fellowship they may have had in America, nor the conferences, campus Bible studies, and other things that they may have come to enjoy Books , The Church's Long March by David Adeney - The kind of Christianity he will return to - Brief history, up to 1985 - Clear but not vindictive against Three Self Church - Do not take this book back to Mainland 234 The Building of Character by J R Miller (in Chinese) - Christian Literature Crusade, 2 Floor, Block C-G, 49 Carnarvom oad, Tsim Sha Tsui, Kowloon, Hong Kong (Phone: 3-723157) - For Christians only 235 Streams in the Desert by Cowper ($1.30 in Chinese) - Easily available in Hong Kong - English is difficult for some Chinese to understand, but this Chinese translation is easy Books For American workers: To understand the things Chinese struggle with in coming to US, and to learn some Chinese culture The first two books are outstanding and the rest for starters. The next two give exceptional insights into China's recent past - Two Years in the Melting Pot by Liu Zongren, Joint Publishing Company (Hong Kong) - available in many US bookstores - The World at our Doorstep: Making Friends with Chinese Students by Dick Andrews, IVCF - After the Nightmare by Liang and Shapiro - Son of the Revolution by Liang and Shapiro - God Reigns in China by Leslie Lyall - South Wind, North Wind: The Intellectuals by Liang and Shapiro Bible Translations This is a difficult problem, pitting almost universal acceptance against ease of understanding 236 Chinese Union Version in Simplified Script - Perhaps available in US from American Bible Society (22A), or in some large university bookstores - Available from Methodist Bookstore, 23-B Coleman Street, Singapore 0617 at US$4.00 including postage 237 He He Ben, The Chinese Union Version - Available from American Bible Society (22A) in the US - Accepted by house churches and TSPM ( Three Self Patriot Movement: churches) - Now also printed in China! - Translated in 1919. The Chinese language has since undergone many changes. But this version is still the one preferred by most middle-aged and older Christians (The situation is some- what like the King-James-versus-newer-translations controversy; but the Union Version is even more difficult to understand) 23 Modern translations, useful for evangelism or less-well-educated Chinese Xian Dai, "Today's Chinese Version" (like Good News Bible) - Useful but not appreciated by many national Christians in the country; "not translated by literary scholars," is the feeling - Available from Hony Kong Bible Society, 67 Chatham load, 9/l, South Oriental Centre, Kowloon, Hong Kong US$5.20 including surface mailing - NT only - Also available from Methodist Bookstore, 23- Coleman Street, Singapore 0617 @ US$5.50 including postage Dang Dai - Like Good News Bible and Living Bible NT and perhaps whole Bible available From Asian 0utreach PO Box 9000 Mission Vievo, CA 92690 Phone: (714) 582-3717 Note: - Clue to more modern Chinese translations: Chinese characters read across the page, rather than up and down. Book is also printed to read from the front, rather than the back (by Western standards) Resources 239 American Bible Society 1865 Broadway New York, NY 10023 - Modernized translation (He He Ben) of Bible 23A The Pocket Testament- League, Inc. 117 Main St P0 Box 368 Lincoln Park, NJ 07035 - Book of John - English-Mandarin combination, side by side.Good for evangelism 23B Discipleship Tape Library 435 West Boyd Norman, 0K 73069 (405) 329-2990 - Over 9,500 cassettes, including many Nav speakers - Catalogue $3.00, paid in advance - Rent 4 tapes for 30 days for $2.00, paid in advance - Notable tapes (but check English ones for ease of hearing and comprehension): a "What Christians Believe" (in Mandarin) b "Mysterious Reasons of Suffering" c "Salvation or Inheritance" d "qualities of Inheritance" e "Testimony: how Jesus Sends Me in this World" f "World View from a Romanian Pastor" (Joseph Ton, exiled pastor from Kornania, now living in Chicago) 23C. International Students, Inc Box C Colorado Springs, C0 80901 - Dr Everett Boyce, formerly with Brother Andrew, has written a manual on suffering 23D. Pray for China Fellowship P O Box 95889 Seattle, WA 98145-2889 - Monthly information and prayer requests free, but donations appreciated 23E All the World Bookstore:ore c/oDave Schupock 31 Lapeer Road llinl, Ml 48503 (313) 743-7020 - Write for list of materials Radio 23F Far East Broadcasting Company 15700 Imperial way La Mirada, CA 90638 - Write for US and China broadcasting schedules 23G Transworld Radio PO Box 99 Chatham, NJ 07928 Note: Both have Chinese Christian Broadcasts Movies/Television/Video - Chinese respond to movies, especially to Moody science Films (available on video cassettes in Christian bookstores) - A good relationship builder in evangelism is an old Ronald Reagan cowboy movie They love seeing the President or ex-President of the United States - Average national in his country goes to the movies two or three times a week - In China, all movies have political significance, though this is chaning some - 60% of China population have black-and-white TVs! - Important principle on use of movies: Do not use one unless you have seen it first Do not go Just on your Friend's recommendation, even some "staff" person's. One offensive item for your national friend can help you lose the benefit of the film If something is questionable, before watching the film mention to the national that there is something offensive and you do not agree with 24 How can we Help a national get in contact with other believers when he or she returns home? 241 Advise him to be patient and discerning while looking for a local house church fellowship. Keep isolated from other Christians at first since the Three Self Church could be undesirable or dangerous, and a house church may be hard to find or for a while may not want the newly returned Christians. They need to e cautious 242 Both your Chinese friend and you must trust the Spirit of God to protect and direct him. When he cannot go to church he can do the following: 2421 Read the Bible - both English (NAS closest to CUV, NIV easier) and Chinese 2422 Pray 2423 Listen to tapes (if he takes a few back) and Christian radio broadcasts (23G, 23H) 2424 Ask the Lord to lead him and another Christian to each other Pray for someone who will be mature and with whom he can talk, discuss the Word, pray, and have fellowship 2425 If possible also relate to an older Christian above the age of 55 or 60, who related to Western Christianity in the old days and would have the balance between the old and the new For those who are further along spiritually, find a non-Christian, lead him to Christ, help him to grow and have a two-man fellowship. Let it grow as the Lord leads 243 "Do not recommend him/her to attend Three Self (open) churches. Pastors in TSPM churches receive their salary from the Communist Government. Though some are believers, they are influenced by government, to bring all Christians under the TSPM and government control Many believers in the country are against the TSPM Young believers may be deceived" - SW. Although this may change, it is still frequently true. However, some US denominations oppose this position (eg Southern Baptist and Assembly of God). So be discreet in your position and counsel. See The Churches Long March (223) for a consideration of the issues 244 Perhaps meet with a Western Christian at first, if national knows of one, unless he finds a committed Chinese Christian or church 2441 Such a person will know where the returning man is coming from and should know something about Chinese Christianity, and hopefully be able to counsel him. 2442 Another idea would be to locate English teachers in a university, some of whom might be Christians. If they spoke Chinese, that would be even more valuable and perhaps a further indication that they were Christians. 25 How much can we prepare them for reentry culture shock, re-entry to non-Christian parents and relatives, and re-entry to the communist system? 251 Alert them that there will be problems and differences such as: discrimination, peer pressure, constant atheistic propaganda, and possibly mocking. 252 Returning home usually brings fear to the national. They are uncertain of the changes in their society and the government's policies. They are uncertain as to what will happen in their transition back (ie lower pay, lower standard of living, lack of freedom, jobs assigned, etc.) 253 The longer the national has been away from home, the tougher the readjustment During their first 1-2 years back home, the tendency is to verbally compare everything with US. This won't win friends and makes it hard For others to accept him/her. Pray with them for a loving, non-crltical attitude - and to keep quiet about differences "even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered Wise; when he closes his lips, he is counted prudent He who restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding" (Proverbs 17:27,28) The next 2-3 years back home, there is the tendency to compare one part of China to another and be critical both of the changes and the slowness of change 254 Have them list their fears. Go over them in prayer and record a biblical principle to meet each one 255 Encourage them to return as ambassadors of Christ and as servants for the Lord's sake to show Him in their attitudes, their relationships, their good works, and their words 256 Key issues: 2561 Parents 25611 Respect For parents is a must 25612 Discuss Ephesians 6 :2,3 with them, also Colossians 3:20 Let them come up with principles and practical steps on how to honour their parents. Consider especially the little things: not arguing, serving, expressing appreciation informing of plans as much as possible 25613 Although honouring parents is lifelong, obeying them applies most when they are still living with them and when it doesn't prevent them From following the Lord - in which case the committed Christian may have to "forsake" them (See Mark 10:28-31; Matthew 10:34-39; and Acts 4:19,20) 2562 The Communist System 25621 Advise them to become more neutral (neither critical and opposed, nor too committed to the system) in order to survive and thrive as a follower of Jesus There will be pressure on them to conform, to Join the Party, to forget their foreign ideas (and especially their "foreign religion," when it's discovered) 25622 Christianity is growing greatly despite the system: before 1949 there were fewer than 1 million protestant Christians in China. Now there are probably more than 40 million. This shows that God's program did not include destroying the communist system. Many things are wrong both in communist and capitalist structures, but Christians are called to shine in any system: Philippians 2:14-16; Matthew 5:16 25623 Advise them to no longer look at people from a horizontal perspective but from a heavenly/eternal perspective. Help them see that we are not representatives of any government but of God's kingdom 25624 Help nationals realise that they are not going back primarily to change the Government; that is not the responsibility God has assigned them (Illustration: The Roman government was a foreign government, with deep hostility to Jesus and Christians, but believers were to submit and pray for it) 25625 Verses: Titus 3:2: "to slander (speak evil of) no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and to show true humility toward all men" Z Corinthians 5:16: "So from now on we regard no one From a worldly point of view" Romans 13:1-17 A Christian's job is to be subject to the existing government where he lives - a passage for Christians everywhere 257 Naturally, exhort them on the importance and indispensability of Scripture memory and of a daily walk and communion with the Lord ---------------------------- 258 A national who has studied overseas tends to become an "authority", perceived as higher in status than local students and local scholars. In the light of his status in heaven, he must be reminded not to look down on his fellow countrymen, his co-workers, or his culture...to avoid the temptation to have a critical or proud spirit...to restablish friendships in a spirit of humility, and build bridges for the Gospel. The more a returnee works at dropping western mannerisms and customs, the more accepted and effective he or she will be. 259 Good books or articles on reentry - The World at our Doorstep- : Making Friends with Chinese students IVCF) - Dick Andrews book on nationals in America and returning home 2.5.A Some who are converted in the West may have intense bitterness toward things at home Anger, self-pity, a critical spirit, bitterness, and pride are all related; and all are corrosive acids to one's inner person and to one's relationship to the Lord and others (Hebrews 12:15) - "bitterness is the revenge we take against ourselves for the actions of others" - Stress the importance of getting rid of bitterness toward tormentors and those who cause hurt or damage, even though bitterness is more socially acceptable in China than America (Matthew 5:10-12; 44-4; Ephesians 4:30-32) 2511 Nationals need to be reminded that the system is often almost as bad for unbelievers as for believers 2512 We need to have a number of stories to illustrate forgiveness Examples: - Doug Spark's daughter and son-in-law died in a tragic car accident After sharing Christ with the driver of offending vehicle, Doug told him that he had caused their deaths Then Doug said, "Because Jesus Christ has forgiven us, I forgive you And my family forgives you" - Corrie Ten Boom met at a Christian meeting an abusive prison guard who years earlier had caused the death of her sister and many others He asked her to forgive him, but she couldn't Then she was reminded of Christ's love and forgiveness, and in his strength said, "Yes, I forgive you" - Don Rosenberger had self-pity and bitterness against Dawson Trotman for 27 years (including 23 years after Dawson went to be with the Lord) It ruined his life, his marriage, his children. Don came to repentance and forgiveness nine years ago, and is again being greatly used by the Lord, is again living with his wife, and God is beginning to work in the lives of his children 13 Share verses on God's loving and wise control of life and world events: Romans 8:28-29 "And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the first-born among many brethren" Psalm 44:4 "Thou art my King, 0 God; command victories for Your people" I Timothy 6:15 "God is the blessed Controller of all things" Genesis 50:20 "And as for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result, to preserve many people alive" Hebrews 13:5 "God has said, 'Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you "' Because of who God is and what He has promised we can and must: Hebrews 12:15 "See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled" Philippians 4:4-7 Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice! Let your forbearing spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" 26 What pressures and rejections will a national expect to experience when he/she returns home? 261 Family - He/she was atheist when he left, is now a Christian. Families respect one who studies in America, so probably will apply no pressure if they avoid being offensive through pride or criticalness, and instead honour, love, serve, try to help, etc. When should a national tell his family/wife that he has become a Christian? Do not tell by mail (censored). Tell family and wife personally. They will respect his religion. But he must be humble and show Christ's love toward his wife, children, and family. He will best win them by demonstrating his new life, without pressuring them to respond to Christ. 262. Political - Political pressure may stronger then family pressure. Teachers are not supposed to have any religion. To be a committed Christian, national must be ready to face these pressures. This may cost him advancement, or the best assignments. There may be offers or hints: "You would rise Faster if you would Forget your foreign religion" Passage of Scripture, such as Matthew 5: 11-12 and Romans 8: 17-18 can help fortify the person before hand 2.7 What vision can we give a national so that he/sh ecan best do evangelism and one-on-one followup in China ? 271 They may sometimes envision themselves as becoming a leader of a group. You should emphasis the effectiveness (especially in "restricted" countries and environments) of individually helping and training another (II Timothy 2:2) Caution them against aggressively seeking to be a group leader or teacher Let God lead in putting them in charge Compare, l Timothy 3:1-7 with James 3: 1 2711 Suggest they arrange to meet others in semi-public places for casual fellowship, or in the hills (outside populous areas) for Bible study rather than in a home, etc. 2712 They can ask: "IF we are going to study the Bible together, where would be a good place?" 2713 Periodically they can check again: "ls this going to be a problem if your friends see you here with me? Is there a better place?" 272 Do not short change him by not sharing world vision and the vision of multiplication (Matthew 28:18-20; II 'Timothy 2:2; Colossians 1: 28,29; Isaiah 50:22) Illustration: Young ex-Buddhist in Burma whoprays weekly for 210 countries: for Psalm 2:8 (converts) and for Matthew 9:37,38 (mature, multiplyinglaborers ) and who is training three men to be multiplying disciples 273 What are helpful methods of witnessing In the Mainland? - Be prayerful and cautious, even with your children - Witness by life first - Take opportunities ie; to share your personal testimony - present the Gospel clearly ie Bridge, Four Spiritual Laws" (without booklet) etc. when the time is right 28 What suggestions should be made to nationals about having an effective witnessing and follow-up ministry? 281 Consider the local and national social and education situation: 5% of high school graduates go to college 80% of the population is rural - older people may not know many Chinese written characters, having only a primary level of reading 282 Ask them about normal, casual ways to relate - What are normal patterns of interaction, eg tea, meals, hiking, small-group outings, etc. - Expose them to a variety of ways of witnessing, not just one: home or dorm room Investigative Bible Discussion, friendship evangelism, use of booklets, use of drawn illustrations See 1.8, Note, for other ideas 29 What further considerations are important for men and for women? 291 More respect is given to the one who has gone overseas and returns to his homeland, but being a Christian lowers this respect in some cases 292 A single woman (having become a Christian) may be pressured by her parents and relatives to marry their recommended choice It may be difficult even to get married, since her education now puts her in a "different class," as does her being a Christian She can be prepared to trust God's ability to do the "impossible," either by giving her a committed Christian partner or by giving her a truly fulfilled life as a single person 30 What can you do with nationals after they get home? 31 Should they or we decide whether it's wise to write them? Who should take the initiative? 311 Ask the national whether and how he wants to be written 312 Reasons why you may write and get no response 3121 Sometimes your letter goes astray - your friend moves, his mail is not forwarded 3122 Sometimes your letter is kept by the censor or a work-unit - official 3123 The returned national is very busy and may find it hard to repIy 3124 A stamp(in China) can cost 1% of a month's salary 313 Do not write too frequently; you are not a relative 314 You Can sometimes have the address written in Chinese and have someone going to China mail your letter inside the country (not from Hong Kong or another foreign country) This entails a much lower security risk . But give such letters only to someone you can really trust 32 What should and should not be said in letters'? 3 21 You can share your blessings and what you have gotten from the Word 322 Do not talk about the believer's walk with the Lord/religious beliefs (This is another application of not telling his testimony but letting him do so as the Lord leads) 323 DO not mention or ask questions about political things It's good to talk about your campus and college news and activities This gives you a natural reason for writing. Perhaps include a campus or city clipping that would be of special interest. This helps to maintain relationships 33 What should and should not be mailed to them in the way of Christian information: Xerox Ed articles, booklets, and books? Sometimes the new Christian doesn't really know. And rules change greatly from month to month. Not just national rules and policies are involved, but also those of the work unit to which he/she will be assigned. The work unit is still the most influential controller of a person's life and relationships 3 3 1 Do not send Xeroxed articles 332 English books not dealing with politics should be UK 333 It's probably not a problem to receive an English Christian book once a year 334 Do not send Chinese books published in Taiwan. Hong Kong publishers are preferable, if they are available in your part of America 34 Should any besides the national's US contact ever visit the national? If so, who? Hong Kong Chinese? Mainland Chinese? Caucasians? 341 The US friend of the national's US contact may visit easily. 342 Have the national's American friend send ahead a letter of introduction (also take a copy) if you are visiting a friend's returned Chinese friend. 343 A discreet white Foreigner does not create the problem that a Chinese foreigner does in visiting the returned Christian. So better not have a Singapore, Hong Kong, or Taiwan Chinese visit them, Unless they were friends in America. The principle involved is natural lines of contact 344 The returnee's name and address should not be given to another Mainland Christian - this could cause large problems or even great danger. The same is true for giving it to Hong Kong or other Chinese. 345 China is still a police state, though at present a slightly relaxed one but the vice could easily tighten again, or perhaps even close completely 35 Should a national be mentioned in any kind of publicity or publications - specifically by name, or by school, major, etc.? 351 Never. Avoid this. They can be tracked down through computer and U clipping services. Even in conversation with others, use an English name or a single initial 36 How should the returning national be prayed for and by whom? 361 By as many as possible 362 Do not tell details (his Chinese name, address, city, university, or even his name, college or major while he was in USA etc) 363 Make general requests for him or her, such as: finding other Christians and a good church fellowship, marriage, re-entry confusion and stress, but not enough detail for anyone to track him down. See 345 above 40 Other Questions 41 How can we recruit fellow-workers? 411 Pray for God to raise them up (Matthew 9:37,38) 412 HAve a small group in your area that meets to pray for China and Chinese students - both those still in America and those back in PRC 413 Tell this group how the Lord is giving you good contacts, all of the openness of Mainland Chinese Studying here. Wave the flag 4l4 From time to time invite a member of the prayer group to observe the time that you have with a Mainlander. Get the members involved in helping you with various projects with CHinese 415 Pray 4/